FAQ
GENERAL
What makes The Butterfly Swaddle different from other swaddles?
The Butterfly Swaddle was designed by Registered Nurse, IBCLC, and Newborn Care Specialist Monica Bykov, after more than 25 years caring for newborns.
Unlike traditional swaddles, it uses a two-stage swaddling system:
- A secure inner wrap band that gently holds baby’s arms down
- Breathable mesh wing trainers that help guide the arms into a natural sleep position
- A transition-friendly design that grows with your baby
This design helps babies feel secure, calm, and supported during sleep.
Why are there mesh butterfly wings on the swaddle?
The mesh wings help:
- Reduce the startle reflex (Moro reflex)
- Keep baby’s arms gently guided into position
- Allow breathable airflow near baby’s arms
They also help babies transition more easily out of swaddling later.
Who designed The Butterfly Swaddle?
The Butterfly Swaddle was designed by Monica Bykov, a Registered Nurse, IBCLC, and Certified Newborn Care Specialist.
After decades caring for newborns, she created the swaddle she wished parents had all along.
Where can I buy The Butterfly Swaddle?
The Butterfly Swaddle is available through:
- The Butterfly Swaddle website
- Selected baby boutiques
- Online baby retailers
Can this help babies sleep longer?
While every baby is different, many parents report that their babies:
- Fall asleep faster
- Wake less often
- Settle more easily after feeding
Swaddling recreates the secure feeling of the womb, which can help calm a newborn’s nervous system.
Can the swaddle help with the startle reflex?
Yes.
The Butterfly Swaddle was specifically designed to help reduce the Moro reflex, which often wakes babies suddenly during sleep.
Can this help soothe fussy babies?
Swaddling can help calm babies because it recreates the secure environment of the womb.
The snug wrap can help reduce overstimulation.
SIZING
What age can babies use The Butterfly Swaddle?
The Butterfly Swaddle is designed for newborns up to about 3 months old.
Preemie swaddles (no mesh wing trainers) are perfect for babies 4–7 lbs. Small is designed for babies 7–12 lbs, and Medium/Large is ideal for babies 12–17 lbs.
Always stop swaddling once your baby begins showing signs of rolling.
How long should babies be swaddled?
Most babies benefit from swaddling for the first 8–12 weeks of life.
Swaddling should be stopped when your baby begins showing signs of rolling.
When should I stop using The Butterfly Swaddle?
Stop swaddling when your baby:
- Shows signs of rolling
- Breaks arms out consistently
- Pushes up strongly during sleep
SLEEP SAFETY
Is The Butterfly Swaddle safe for sleep?
Yes. The Butterfly Swaddle was designed with safe sleep principles in mind.
Features include:
- Luxuriously soft organic cotton and bamboo rayon blend designed to be soft against newborn’s delicate skin
- Mesh panels for airflow
- A snug wrap to prevent loose fabric
- Roomy lower sack for healthy hip movement
Always place your baby on their back on a firm mattress with no loose bedding.
How tight should the swaddle be?
The swaddle should feel snug around the chest, but never tight.
You should be able to fit two fingers between the swaddle and baby’s chest.
Baby’s hips and legs should always be able to move freely.
Can I use The Butterfly Swaddle for naps and nighttime?
Yes.
The Butterfly Swaddle can be used for both naps and nighttime sleep.
Consistency often helps babies learn sleep routines more quickly.
Can I use this with a sleep sack?
Yes. Many parents use the swaddle inside a sleep sack during cooler months.
Just ensure baby does not become overheated.
COMFORT
What fabric is The Butterfly Swaddle made from?
The swaddle is made from a luxuriously soft organic cotton and bamboo rayon blend designed to be gentle against newborn’s delicate skin.
The mesh wings provide additional airflow to help keep babies comfortable.
Will my baby get too hot?
The Butterfly Swaddle was designed with breathable materials to help reduce overheating.
Dress baby underneath according to room temperature using light layers.
What should my baby wear underneath?
This depends on room temperature.
Most babies wear:
- A short-sleeve onesie in warmer rooms
- A long-sleeve footie in cooler rooms
Can babies move their legs in the swaddle?
Yes.
The Butterfly Swaddle has a roomy lower sack that allows babies to move their legs naturally, which helps support healthy hip development.
Does the swaddle allow healthy hip movement?
Yes.
The lower sack is designed to allow natural hip and leg movement, which supports healthy hip positioning.
COMMON CONCERNS
My baby breaks out of every swaddle. Will this work?
Many babies escape traditional swaddles because they rely on blanket wrapping that loosens easily.
The Butterfly Swaddle uses a secure wrap band system, which helps keep the arms comfortably contained and prevents babies from wriggling free.
What if my baby likes their hands near their face?
Some babies enjoy bringing their hands toward their face while sleeping.
The Butterfly Swaddle gently guides the arms downward, which helps prevent the startle reflex from waking baby during sleep.
Most babies adjust within a few nights.
Does this work for babies with reflux?
Many parents of reflux babies appreciate the secure upper wrap, which can help babies feel calmer and less startled.
However, always follow your pediatrician’s recommendations for sleep positioning.
Is this swaddle difficult to use?
No.
Many parents find the Butterfly Swaddle easier than blanket swaddling.
The wrap band with our patented mesh wing trainers, alongside our included guide, can help you step by step.
How many swaddles should I have?
Most families find 2–3 swaddles helpful.
This allows one to be worn, one in the wash, and one as backup.
How do I wash the swaddle?
Machine wash cold on gentle cycle.
Tumble dry low heat or hang dry.
Avoid fabric softeners to maintain the breathable fabric.